Anyone had experience with a Hoyer or other lift? I have to bring Mom home from rehab and they are recommending one, but I have zero... I mean zero... mechanical ability, and I'm small and not that strong, and Mom outweighs me by a good sixty pounds, at least. The aide I hire has used one with a previous client, but I'm afraid I can't do it, and that this means time for full time home care or placing her, and I know she would give up quickly in a nursing home. I don't want to do that, but I think she's at the point where I can no longer care for her, unless I hire a lot more help. The thought of using one of these contraptions myself is giving me a full blown panic attack. I feel so stupid, but when I looked at the directions and watched a youtube video, I thought no way can I do this. My lack of mechanical ability is so bad it's like a form of dyslexia, and also, Mom outweighs me by about 70 pounds.