I just told my Dad today that us kids filed for guardianship and he was sent the notice from the court. And until the court decides he will be staying where he is in a long term care center. He said it was not gonna happen, and he was fine. I told him he had moderate vascular dementia from a series of strokes. He said that he did not-it was one of my sisters that told the doctor that. I explained we had the necessary documents that determined he was not capable of making his own decisions. It was either us or the state would appoint someone. That we loved him and did not want some stranger making decisions for him. He did not take it well, said he was going to get an attorney and take all the people that tested him and said he passed with flying colors. It is very sad because he is doing pretty good in the nursing home, gaining weight, not running amuck all over the city. And not having the ER and hospital calling every 5 or 6 days when there is another crazy thing or new crisis happening. He is in a structured environment, someone is cleaning him up when he has an accident. I just feel very very sad. He was a selfish man, deserted and abandoned his children after our mothers died, caused drama and chaos for all of his 90 years. But now all that hurt, anger, frustration we all felt with him is over. He is a sick old man, but it is sad.