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I like the backwards walker idea. It does work quite well to help balance a person while they are standing in front of the toilet or when they are getting up from sitting on the toilet.
Do you have a standard height toilet or a tall one with an elongated bowl? The tall elongated ones are much easier for aiming.
If it is a balance problem line DeeAnna mentioned you could try placing a walker backwards over the the toilet, pushed back so that the hand can hold the grip while standing. Also makes it easier to get up when sitting.
Another option is to try to get him to sit down when using the toilet. Easier for the balance as well as preventing dribbles.
Has your husband been tested and evaluated for dementia? At the least, he may need to start wearing adult incontinence briefs. And, he probably needs supervision when he heads for the bathroom. He is obviously becoming confused and needs someone to point him in the right direction in the bathroom. He should also be supervised in other areas of your home as well to keep him safe. And, unsolicited advice, but if hubby tests out to have dementia, I would very, very carefully think over taking on the care of your mother-in-law in addition to your father and your husband.
Maybe your husband is having problems with his balance and is using the counter to support his body while peeing. 😃