My MIL is so nice to visitors but when it's just her and me........she often shuts me out. By that, I mean that she refuses to make eye contact, refuses to speak, refuses to eat or drink. When BIL stops by (2 hr/wk max), she is sweet as she can be. Eats anything he brings her, smiles, talks etc.
I can't help but assume this is my fault and am trying everything. I am kind and gentle with her, moved her bed into the living room so she is in the middle of the action and center of attention. But............................she shuts me out and it hurts. Just wondering if anyone else has this problem?