My fiancé and I have built a beautiful apartment for his mother. It is attached to our house and she has lived there for over 13 years. Three of her daughters live out of state and one lives an hour away. Any time we try to make a decision with her car, they all bud in and nothing gets done. We have tried to get her pain management shots, they talked her out of it, tried to get her blood work, talked her out of it. Telling her she is fine and doesn't need this extra health care is ridiculous as they do not see her daily. The daughter that lives an hour away comes maybe ever two to three weeks, but because she is executor she feels she is the boss. Her son would like to have medical power of attorney to get her the medical attention she needs and get her a routine care taker to stop in during the week as we run our own business. The girls all gang up on him saying she doesn't need it. (mostly because she will be spending some of her money) What are the steps we can take to get her on a schedule with a care service and also get medical power of attorney as she lives with us? You can tell she is getting extremely depressed and out of sorts from being alone and no company...we can only do so much as our hands are tied by the daughters.