My father lives with my handicap brother and a son recently diagnosed with liver disease my dad has recently fell he can not walk and is now is in a wheelchair. I work and live within minutes from the home . I go there 3 times a day to feed, change and get him up and move my father. I did this with my mom for 5 years before I physically could not lift her anymore. I had to put her in nursing home and she passed within the year. So my parents did the spend down and we paid funerals. I know my dad will have to end up in the nursing home because of his hip replacement his legs are turning in and I may damage him more. I just want to make sure my handicap brother can stay in home he is 60 years old and I am trying to keep is live a normal as possible. My parents do not have any money do to my mom being in and out of nursing homes in previous years. There home is paid for but needs a lot of repairs more then he can afford. I am trying to do the best I can but I am 53 years old and wearing down fast. Not sure if I can let my brothers stay in home.