Why do I feel so guilty when I know I'm doing everything I can? Cargiving SIL age 53 currently on hospice. She has end stage liver failure, psoriatic arthritis, CHF, breast cancer, fibro, 6 weeks ago she had surgery for brain hemotoma, suffering from hetactic ensepolpathy now with psychosis.Still feeling guilty for even putting her on hospice, she's better, she has stabilised physically, mentally it's still a roller coaster....but with respidol that's a little better too. Hospice RN shocked again, Lvns say they have no patients like her. Feel guilty because I'm mad sometimes because the liver part she did to herself. Mad because it's my family who carries the burden, then I feel more guilty. feel guilty to my own family because I can't put her in. NH because they're understaffed and she'd have to be restrained and share a room, and I'd have to be there all the time.Guilty because I have to treat her like a child because most of the time she's seriously loopy. Tries to wander and do things at 3 am. Guilty because I dread her waking in the middle of the night, we have to watch her every waking moment because she falls 2-4 a week no matter our safety measures, I resent her Other family and her absentee husband.