Has anyone had a similar experience with guilt over their spouse's death while taking care of a parent?

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Wouldda, couldda, shouldda. We can't change the past. But we can carry all of the guilt of the world. We are so hard on ourselves. This is guilt that you need to shed. I'm so sorry you lost your husband. But please stop the guilt. He had so many health concerns, you had to know he probably wouldn't live a long life. We can't change the past, but we can change the way we look at it. Dwell on the good stuff. Remember the good times. Give yourself time to grieve. Please follow through with your plans to place mom. Don't allow her care to take you down too. Bless your heart.

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