Mine is a little bit different story, dad was living a pampered life for 4 years with 24/7 personal caregivers at home... now his money is all but gone and I moved him to a beautiful facility that his long term care insurance will cover... he is acting awful, hates everything, won't eat or sleep. I can't even stand to talk to him it is so stressful and painful for me. He insisted on staying home for all those years knowing that his money was running out, but somehow now everything is my fault. I am moving forward with selling his home so I can replenish his bank account... that is the ultimate crime in his mind. I know he is selfish and spoiled but I also know that if he dies in the next few months I will feel like I caused it.