My 92 year old mom has dementia. She has lived with my husband and I for 10 years. The last two have been crazy difficult due to her condition. 10 days ago she was offered a Medicaid bed at a really sweet memory care home near us. It is a miracle she was placed since she has no assets. I know intellectually this is a very good move. The problem is the guilt. I had no idea it would be this hard. My heart goes out to any of you who have had to place a parent.