My dad is 75 and cognitively all there. After 2 months in the hospital for a GI infection and a stint in rehab, it was strongly urged that dad be transferred to AL since he is still so weak and unable to do much for himself. I've visited and met with several facilities and we've found one we really like--the admissions director even came to meet my dad. Dad is ok with it, but I'm having such guilt, grief, and anxiety over this change. I know it's the right thing--I'm just curious to hear from others on how you coped with the transition.