My mother's husband is disabled and is neglecting my mother of proper health Care. From not being fed in a timely fashion to not receiving her meds correctly. She stays in a soiled diaper causing constant UTI infections. She hasn't had a real bath in over a year. She's fallen 4 times in 3 days. He's begun to alienate her from her family. She's been to the ER twice in 10 days. I feel in my heart of hearts he only has bad intentions. I desperately require someone's help before my mother dies from self, and passive neglect. I've contacted elder services and filed a formal complaint. They are trying but it seems they have way too many I's to dot, and T's to cross before they realize the true harm my mother's in. Please please help me save my mother.