In the past 2 years, I've lost my sister, mom, and dad. I saw my father mentally break down after the death of my mom. My younger brother and I were catapulted into careguving for my dad (with mobility issues) immediately after my moms death. My father passed away in July--I believe from a broken heart and "failure to thrive". I guess I question if we did all we could for him: we let him stay in the house as Lo g as we could, encouraged him to do PT, and researched several AL and SNU in the area. I believe my dad wanted to die the day my mom passed away--I still have so much guilt that I didn't do enough (or the right) things to help my dad. Has anyone experienced this?