My grandpa is very stubborn and will not take a shower/bathe. I don't know why and he won't tell anyone why. His catheter is constantly coming out and pee goes all over him and couch and carpet. He won't let us clean up that either he just yells at us and it is making it difficult to be around him because he is really starting to smell bad. He goes to doctors visits often but they just act like they don't smell him or something. I'm very confused about what to do. My grandma is to weak to help him shower and I think it might be a little weird to him and me if I tried to help.(if he ever did decide to take one). Please, any advice would be helpful!!