My grandpa has suffered from dementia and has advanced to full care in the last year. He is wheelchair bound and wears depends but recently hes been playing in his feces and i cont handle it no more but for the past 3 years hes been my only income. I'm newly pregnant with no place to go if i put him in a nursing home because i put my life on hold to stay at home and care for him. I want to work, I want to go back to finish school. Im only 27 I feel so stuck but i physically cannot do it no more and i feel so horrible. I cry every morning i have to get him out of bed and he has feces smeared all over everything, including himself. Please if anyone has any answers, please help.