Hi all! My grandmother is in a NH and moved into long term last Wednesday. She refuses to get out of bed. She is a VERY stubborn old woman. She just turned 91. Her dementia is getting worse. She doesn’t remember eating her meals and is hungry shortly after eating. She needed to be changed but forgot 10 mins later. She needs to get out of bed even if it’s just into a wheel chair. She is blind, can see shadows so I think that may be part of the hesitation. But all of the patients are out in the hall talking or just wheeling themselves around the halls. I don’t want my grandmother to isolate herself. She gets MAD when we suggest getting up or even sitting up. She complains about hurting between her legs but they’ve don’t all the tests and there’s nothing. I wonder if she’s just focused on it and says it every time out of habit?!? I know I’m asking a lot in this post but I have NO family to bounce anything off. It’s very frustrating and I want to help her but I don’t know how. Also refuses showers.