I am going insane.....I have been trying desperately to help my 92 years old grandmother for the past few months get her banking, bills, doctors appts, meals on wheels and so much more together for her. She has a old friend of hers that has done her bills for years and yet now that I have started helping her it seems as though this woman has been taking advantage of my grandmother. Plus this woman feels that nothing is wrong with her. My gram is getting worse and worse by the day at remembering any conversation that had taken the day before let alone things that happened days or weeks ago. I feel as though I am going nuts. One day I am able to help and the next day she is shag nasty and changes her mind telling me no one can tell her what to do. I have power of attorney which I really don't know what that means. Last evening she called my father and told him off saying we were never going to put her into a home etc. and no one had the right to make her move. Today she doesn't even remember calling him. What do I do? I am at wits end. I have most of her bills set up as auto pay and now she is going off saying she is going to open a new checking account and pay her own bills. OMG please someone give me some advice.