My grandmother, who currently lives with my mom, who is the main caregiver, absolutely refuses to move into a assisted living. She thinks that she does not need help at all and she is looking at apartments for her to rent to get out of having my mom as a caregiver. My mom is not taking care of herself and the situation is getting bad. My grandmother is still driving, even though she shouldn't be and has the financial means to do what she wants. She cannot live by herself because she cannot take care of herself. I have toured a few assisted living facilities and want to figure out a way to get her to move in. She gets angry when you discuss it and tells me that "shes not going to go into assisted living because she's capable to take care of herself." When she's not, but you can't tell her that otherwise its a big fight and hurt feelings. Anyone have a tricks up their sleeves for a transition like this?