Today upon my visit to the rehab facility my grandmother was gonna be discharged to head home with the in-home care service. But today they wanted to the use the hoyer lift, which reminds me of an engine hoist if you were to do a engine swap on a car, so the nurses tried to get her to get on it and she refused. And today is shower day- they wanted to give her a shower and refused. If she were to come home, that isn't gonna work. She is gonna fight every step of the way with an in house caregiver. I had to make the call of keeping her long term knowing she's safe and not alone in a house with a possibility of a bad fall or worse. In my eyes I don't feel she is fit to head home so I have a lot to work on with the guardianship and the house. This is so tough for one person to deal with, but I'm keeping strong is all I can do.