Grandma has dementia. She asks all the time when she can go home, we tell her that she needs more care than Grandpa can give her right now, so she has to stay until the doctors say she can go home. The last few days, she has been suddenly very confused. This morning when I arrived for a visit, she had all of her stuff packed. I put it all away. Later in the evening, my Dad went to visit and she had started to pack again. She is saying that a doctor came to see her and told her she will go home tomorrow or this weekend (obviously not true). How do we handle this? Should we keep putting her stuff away. Who do we 'blame' for keeping her there if she thinks the doctor said she can go soon? This is breaking my heart!