The problem is mostly that she can't pull up her pull on diaper underwear. I think she can usually pull up her pants, but not always. PT is not an option as we've been that route and she hated it. There is a wall with a window directly to her left if she's standing at the toilet, I thought about having her just turn and lean against it so the wall can support her weight. Is that a bad idea? She often leans up against the sink when she's done so she can tie the drawstring on her pants. Is there anything else that could work? I thought about switching her to the tabbed diaper briefs (like baby diapers), but I don't know if she could figure those out. It could just make her worse mentally, I don't know.