My grandmother has dementia and it has recently gotten worse. Her husband has been dead for 10 years. She has just started asking where he is with the kids and trying to call him to find him. Im not sure what the best thing is to do. Ive tried redirecting but she stays focused on it. Ive tried telling her they will be home soon in hopes that she would move on to something else but this causes her to get more worked up. Ive even told her he passed away and she gets upset like it just happened and she missed it. I cant keep telling her he died. It is to painful for me. What are my other options?