A few months ago I moved back in with my grandparents, whom raised me due to health issues I am having. But now I now feel like it was a bad idea. My grandfather is disgusting, he purposely urinates all over the bathroom floor. The bathroom floor has to be mopped daily and the toilet has to be throughly cleaned at least 2 to 3 times a day. My grandfather has asked my grandfather to use his urinal bottle but when he uses that he lets it fill all the way to top and after that he pees in his bedroom trashcan. He refuses to bathe and is verbally abusive to my grandmother and I. I am very worried about my grandmother she is not in the best of health and I read somewhere that 60% of caregivers die before the person they are caring for. My grandfather is going to drive my grandmother to an earlier grave if something doesn't change. And no, my grandfather doesn't suffer from dementia, he was been throughly tested for it on more than one occasion. I do not say anything to him about his behavior because it is not my place, my grandmother scolds him but he acts like he doesn't even hear her. I am just so frustrated because he makes me and my grandmother's life that much more difficult.