My Grandfather is 89. He fell on July 10th and refused to go to the hospital. He has gone downhill steadily since then. Refuses medications. Has taken to bed and only gets up with assistance to use the restroom. He eats a bite or two of food once every 3 or 4 days. He'll only drink tea or water. Maybe 6 to 8 oz a day. He became incontinent of bowels but has not needed to go in two weeks. He sleeps about 20 to 22 hours per days. He can talk but expresses a desire to die. Says he is in no pain. Wants to stay home with my husband and myself although he's become demanding of me and degrading. It's hard to know what to expect.