We just took in my 88 year old father who has dementia. The last week has been a real eye opener on how I am dealing with this. I can't do it! I'm an only child and my husband is helping me. Things are strained and stressed. I even had chest pains the other day. He is high maintenance and I feel as though I've lost my life in the process of helping him. I am considering a nursing home. Any advice would be most appreciated.