Quad heart bypass. Bi-Lat femoral arterial bioassay-stil smokes. Cardiologist says "don't fight this battle". He wants a cigarette about every two hours. Non-insulin diabetes but run sigh blood sugars. Candy demands, ice cream demands, green grapes, oranges, etc. "don't worry, just give them whatever they want". He's 83 - is this the way to play this? The alternative is constant arguing-trying to re-direct, offer alternatives. Help!