My dh gave my dad who has LBD money this week. I have asked him time and time again not to. Dad wants to go home so asks for money to take the bus. Of course he misplaces the money or it gets stolen and then he gets aggressive and violent at the thought he was robbed. This leads to over medicating with seroquel or god forbid Haldol. It is hard enought to stay on top of visits and his meds to keep him comfortable and now I am waiting for a phone call to say that dad has lost his money and needs to be sedated..bound to happen. I have Dad in one home and Mom in another home with alz. I am at my wit's end trying to make people understand how stressful this is. Have any others had this experience and how and if has it been resolved. And yes, the thought of committing my DH to a third nursing home has crossed my mind. i'm very discouraged and saddened. I'm also exhausted from trying to prevent blow ups at the home.