When my grandma died, she left a large inheritance for my sister and I. I had no relationship with my grandma or that side of the family. I really feel bad and like a hypocrite because of my personal beliefs but my aunt, uncle and father had a family meeting and are contesting none of it even though they pretty much got nothing in comparison. My aunt took care of every aspect of my grandmas care and visited her daily even though my grandma was just not a pleasant person. Based on my caregiving experiences, I believe she got screwed. I have been composing a letter to her but nothing really sounds right. I want to get her some type of gift or a vacation or something to let her know her actions were appreciated. I really know nothing about her except she likes gardening flowers. Any suggestions?