Mom has always been very appreciative of my 24/7 care, I am also an RN and work full time weekends. Mom wants to leave me the house. I have 3 living siblings who are concerned it would not be finacially fair to them, FAIR..define that to a caregiver. She has some $ now but it may not last leaving them 0. Mom is perfectly OK with that, my sis is absolutely Not. She said its Not a $ issue, just Not fair issue. Words cannot convey the day in the life of a cregiver. It is not the same as a visit 1x yearly for 1-2 weeks. She cannot get that and feels I am a monster for agreeing to let Mom do this, as if i had any say so. She feels I have made mother make this decision which is so not true. I am grateful mom knows and she feels good about her decision to give me more. Thank you mom for understanding, wish sis did.