This is the deal. My mom has been on a slippery slope for the last few years walking problems and dementia. She currently lives in a facility, but within month she should be home permanently. My sister does not want anything to with my mom unless it some special occasion such as birthdays, holidays etc. It makes me mad that she leaves it all on me and my dad. I can only do so much and dad heath is good but he is getting up in age, so he has less energy. I wish she would just visit her once in a while and spend some time with her like I do. I try to find different fun things for me and mom to do to keep her happy Going movies and doing crafts. I am only one person and I can only do so much. I have other things going on in my life. I feel guilty when I don’t visit her for days on end, no more than 5. I would feel better if someone visits her. I can picture a big argument happening whenever my mom dies.