I have been helping my longtime boyfriend take care of his grandmother, who has dementia, for almost 3 years now. I have never been able to get payed for all the work I do; which range from managing her daily medications to household chores. Neither me or my boyfriend can get her to agree to pay us as her caregivers. We've tried the local IHSS office where we live but were told she doesnt qualify. Please help with any of your answers/suggestions. Have in mind that this woman has the finances to pay me or any other person for that matter to be heling her. She simply refuses to. I've heard something about suing a person for loss wages, how does one go about doing so. I would appreciate any help I can get because im tired of feeling used and taken advantage of by this woman. And am too nice of a person to just stop helping her.