He cannot walk, stand, bathe himself, or go to the bathroom. My elderly mother and I together used to be able to lift him onto a commode, but he has deteriorated so much we can't do that anymore because he's just dead weight now. Because he's 300 lbs and we are no longer able to lift him, he just sits in his own feces in a chair because we are unable to clean him properly. My mother and I are both injured from trying to move/lift him, she's had to go back to using a cane.
He's only 60 but I fear he's beginning to lose his mind. He's become verbally abusive, paranoid, has multiple phobias, severe anxiety, and rage issues he is untreated for. He is totally dead set against going to a rehab facility/home even if he's hurting us. I'm really disappointed in how selfish he's being. If i wear doing this to my family, I'd go in a heartbeat. Anyway, do we have any options to force him?