My husband and I are caring for his 96 year old grandmother. She has dementia and has fallen three times in the past week. The first fall resulted in 5 staples to the back of her head. I have stopped working to be home with her in our apartment but I could use some help. I have four very busy kids and my husband has long work hours with only Monday's off sometimes. This past week has been so difficult after the fall her confusion got even worse she had no idea . screen door and her worker. She also went 40 hours straight with no sleep which meant I also couldn't sleep, she was hallucinating and trying to reach for thing that weren't there. I called her neurologist and he suggested that I watch her better I told the arrogant ass that not even Superman could have eyes on her every second that I do have to sleep and do laundry sometimes. He finally prescribed her Xanax now she is resting but that is still not the solution. Do I confront her another doctor about suggesting hospice?