My mother-in-law is coming down with Alzheimer-confused-forgetful.
Her daughter inherited her land and home, and in return the mother is to be cared for by the daughter.
My mother inlaw's most fear is to be put in a nursing home. Now, the daughter is going to put her in a nursing home. The daughter knows well that is not her mother's wish.
There is nothing left financially to care for my mother inlaw. So I picked her up and she is now with me in my home and under my care.
It is not money, land or house that I am trying to get, but the DPOA. I feel that my principle is insulted. The fact that I am taking care of the mother, and have no saying. I feel like I am the sitter and the daughter gets to order me around. I fell sorryu for the old woman that her daughter has mistreated her own mother.
I would like to know how I can get some saying in caring for the old woman.
Thank you for your advise,