Husband diagnosed with terminal lung cancer -hospice advised. I keep breaking down and sobbing . How can I get strong to copeLast week my husband went for tests at the hospital. Eventually they found he had lung cancer spreading to lymph nodes. Probably from the asbestosis. They cant operate or give him therapy so they are sending hospice nurse in. I called hospice and she will come on Friday. The problem is I was holding up well until yesterday but now falling apart. My stomach is in knots and I keep sobbing - cant think straight. I want to be strong for him but how? Is there any way like TM or drugs or something? I am falling apart.