They come over everyother weekend and Mom ends up paying for the meal. My Brother and his wife live only two blocks away from us andI guess he figures calling her three times a week he is fullfilling his obligation. Mom wants all of us to get together to have a "Family Meeting" but is afraid that my brother will become angry at her or me . I am willing to keep my mouth closed because I will get aggrivated with him,he should know that we need him and he just doesn't get it. He always says if you need me call, but Mom or I should not have to call it should be an automatic thought. Can anyone give me advice as to how to get a Family Meeting started?