My brother is to say the least very wealthy and Does on occasion help-but the fact is he can help more much more. I don't want to ask and start a BIG MESS I would love to have him offer but that is no lokely to happen ever. I live with and take care 24/7 my father who is a double leg amputee, has CHF,COPD and TYPE 2 DIABETIC, plus other things. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters who except fpr phone calls are not aware of the level of care my father needs. I just would love to have my brother out of the blue send me some money to take the pressure off me-ANY THOUGHTS THANK YOU!!