My dad has dementia but has been functional for the past 3 years. He has lived alone and done relatively well. In the last 2 months he has declined rapidly. Bills aren't getting paid and he is often overwhelmed and confused. He puts on a brave face to try to prevent anyone from seeing his struggles. He lives about 240 miles from me and I have been trying to get him to move to a senior facility closer to me, but he doesn't want to live in a "big city". His neurologist and I know he just doesn't want to give up his independence. I know it is best for him to move, but is very resistant - even to the point of telling me he will "off" himself if he gets bad enough to go into a "home". Things in the last 3 weeks have declined rapidly and i know it is time. How do i talk to him to get him to agree to move?