Quit job to take care of quadraplegic boyfriend for. 3 years ,no help, 24 hour care. When he passed away ,not even a thank you . Did everything, va paid 2-3 hours every other day for bodily functions, I did cooking ,cleaning,yard work,transferring,driving,shopping,insert if ,wound care medication management,not paid for 24 hour care or thanked. Been together 22 year.