My Dad has POA for my gram but wants me to take over care because she is too much for him. Nothing has been done to secure gram's home and finances, etc. She's now in advanced stages and can no longer remember her birth date or last name, but she remembers me. Is that enough for her to grant me POA? I want to make sure I can give her the best I can offer without her going to a nursing home and losing her home. She has home health care but I'm afraid they'll come back on the house after she's gone to pay for it. My dad lives there.