We had a agency caregiver that took advantage and continues to do so. She became too personal and cross the lines by taking money several times. The agency let her go and now he is insisting on still wanting to help her and wanting to move out. Change the agency to one she has referred him too.
He setup a Go Fund Me page for her and has given her the money>$600. We only recently were made aware Of gifts, tires etc..
We have tried to explain that this is unethical but says he doesn't care caused she is his friend. He is severely disabled and can not care for himself and should be going to Assisted living. My husband (his Son) and I are now the devils. He has screamed at us, banged his walker on the floor, and told us that she is more important than his family. He says he is moving out this week, He will not listen to reason. We have been caring for him since he had quad. bypass over a year ago. Something has happened to his ability to rationalize and is making harmful decisions.
We do have his Medical POA if he is medically unable.