Two years ago with my parents approval I had everything all set up POA for financial and medical because my folks asked me to take care of them. Then my dad started distrusting me and my husband. He took away all the POA's. And now he is lying to relatives that we tried to steal things from him like land, his will, etc. He is completely paranoid and we have tried to get him to see three different psychologists. I even had people write letters to the psychologist about what they have observed about my dad. And I've even tried talking to the psychologists but can't because of HPPA and because my dad has taken away my POA medical. My dad either refuses to continue to see the psychologists or he lies to them that nothing is wrong and that I'm the one that is lying. The doctors think he is just fine and completely competent and I'm the daughter just trying to steal control. He's well enough to take care of himself yet he makes up all these lies to friends and relatives and lawyers (who all believe him). This is seriously hurting my marriage, and our whole family relationship! What can I do to stop this? We have tried to have family meetings to no avail. Even my mom has turned against me and sides with my dad even though she knows that it is wrong. He also lies to the psychologist because he thinks he will be institutionalized. And that is why my mom lies also to protect him. We have told him this won't happen but he still continues to drive us crazy! I'm completely befuddled as to what to do to get people to believe me that my dad is crazy! What can I do to stop this madness? Please help me!!!