The folks have their house up for sale and plan to take that money and give it to their church. They have very little in savings and one gets a very small pension. I am afraid there will not be enough $ to pay for long term care should one or both need it, They say they have Medicare , Medicaid and friends will help them out if they need it.
My sibling and I don not have the monetary means to support them if something happens. They will not talk to us about financial matters and I am supposedly the executor? Will the children be responsible for all debt if there is no money left in their finances? How should I proceed?