My parents live with me and my family. I still have two children at home. My mother who is 70 has severe osteoporosis and therefore has brakes quite often. However she still has most of mobility. My dad literally waits on her hand and foot and expects the rest of us to do it as well. She is also diabetic and refuses to eat right. She just got out of the hospital because her kidneys were infected. There for a 3 week period or so she was flat on her back in the bed. Not because she couldn't get up. I really don't know why. Anyway she wouldn't even get up to go to the bathroom so she used a bed pan and my dad was out one day so she had me come in there and help her. She actually wanted me to wipe her off when she was done. Not because she couldnt. I just don't know what to do anymore. Then I'm the bad daughter for not wanting to do this stuff for her and not wanting to go spend my entire day at her bedside. I still have a family at home to take care of. The other day she came in the kitchen in her scooter and asked me to get her something to drink with ice. Well I was in the middle of making myself something to eat and we have one of those refrigerators with ice in the door. She actually wanted me to get her a soda and I didn't but got a her a juice instead. Anyway it's just stuff like that , that she can obviously do herself. I don't know what to do anymore and am so frustrated. My other sisters won't really have much to do with her so it's all left to me. And you can't even mention nursing home or assisted living without them getting upset.