My mother does not want to move out of her chair in the living room. Not to go to toilet, nothing. I need to change her pull ups. but it seems impossible. I plead, beg, try to be firm, give hugs, nothing works. She sits in the wet or soiled pull up for hours. I know she finds it physically difficult to get up and I try to support her but she leans back cries out that I hurt her so eventually I give up. She does not cooperate to try and get up. (and I understand that she does not understand what Im asking but I need to get her cleaned up!) Any ideas?