Mom had PD (prob Stage 4). For the past 3 wks she's cancelled the shower aide b/c "she's waiting until she feels better". At that rate, St. Peters will be the one giving her the shower b/c she's NOT going to feel better. I've even offered to give her a sponge bath and she hasn't had one of those for at least 12 days!! HELP!! I feel helpless b/c I am unemployed, living in my mom's house and she's paying my upkeep and medical insurance so I dont' feel so comfortable laying down the law. IF it were my house, and I was in charge of the finances it would be a whole different ballgame.