It's been 1 mo. & she fights us verbally all the way. She says that she takes sponge baths daily, but the wash cloths are seldom used, staying dry for days at a time; yet she swears that she's cleaning herself daily. I think that she THINKS that she cleans herself, but in reality, she really isn't. We get tired of arguing with her & trying to explain that she needs to take a real bath at least once a week. She is very stubborn & we can't make her bathe. She wants to be in control over everything, & she becomes very hard to deal with for days after an argument. Any suggestions would be helpful because we will probably not put her into a nursing home unless her health diminishes seriously.