My mother hasn't been able to go to the laundromat in months and is wearing clothes with excrement on them but insists that I am the only one who thinks she's dirty when I told her she needed to let someone wash her clothes. Now she's very upset with me, but I can't stand the thought of her living like that. The house has smelled like urine for years but she always blamed the cat. Ever since having her gallbladder out several years ago she's had problems with her bowels and doesn't bathe regularly either. Along with the hygiene issues she's forgetting to pay bills so I'm assuming she has dementia. The doctor was no help at all for any of these issues and didn't even address the mental problems. Help!