My Mom refuses to take a shower and change her clothes. She tells everyone that she showers daily and changes her clothes but sometime when I go to visit her she has stains on her pants. We have also tried to get someone to come in and help her with bathing and she refuses to let anyone including me to help her. I am her daughter and my Dad is also still alive but he does not have any luck either. They live in an assisted living facility so help is available if they need it but my Mom refuses to let anyone help her.