April 20th my mom had a seizure, we called 911 and she was rushed to the emergency room, we found out she has lung cancer metastasis to the brain. The neurosurgeon removed the tumor in the brain with no complications. The tumor in her lung is a very small one and was almost missed but they found it (less than a mm) radiation is a few days away. Now that you know that much she was told by the doctors she was one of the lucky ones and she would be fine two weeks no driving then activity as normal. So why is she acting as if she is an invalid? She won't get out of bed moans and groans all day and relentlessly complains about everything! I have had to do everything for her she won't drive, or do anything and i mean ANYTHING! I took her back to the doctor because I thought something had to be wrong! The doctor said nope, other than the obvious she is in great health! BP the lowest its been in years and all her scans show progress. So what is her deal? She was an alcoholic up until this happened and now she can't drink alcohol. I have cared for her my entire life! I do it for love as she has already given my sister all her money, her life insurance and everything! So I am supporting financially and in every way imaginable and I have just reached my limit! Why is she acting like she is so bad off when the doctors all say she is fine? Even the tumor in her lung is shrinking on its own! Yet she seems to be just waiting for the worms for lack of a better term. How do I explain to her she needs to get up and do something! I have an 11 year old autistic daughter and a husband. Not to mention a job! But she thinks all that should come secondary to her! What do I do?